Em + Nate

Em + Nate's

Santa Barbara


GLADASS [originating from the surnames Gladders & Hass] is an event honoring the Scottish-Chicago-West Virginia-Jewish roots of their parents Lady Margaret, Gerald, Rebecca, and Aaron with their community as witnesses.

Fri April 26th

Welcome Party

5:00pm @ Municipal Winery

For those who are in town early we’ll have tacos + drinks at one of our favorite SB spots.

Sat April 27th

The Main Event

@ Dart Coffee Garden

A casual/royal union among the flowers.

3:30 Happy Hour
4:30 Ceremony

Following the Ceremony

The Love Club ™

@ Helena Mason Art Gallery

A dance! party.

Where to stay

Harbor View Inn

25% Off Promo Code: Gladass2024

It only works when booking online.
Add to "discount" section at initial search.

Walking distance to all events!
We recommend booking ASAP, while available.
You won't be charged until 48 hours before check-in.


Bus from LAX to SB

For those of you making the journey from other parts of the world (thank you!), a bus can take you from LAX to Santa Barbara.

You can also fly into Santa Barbara.


We're so excited to celebrate with our community, but due to venue size, we have to keep to a limited capacity. Please only RSVP for invited individuals.
No children, please.

Kindly RSVP by March 15th.

Welcome Party


Add Invited Name



Funky, bold, colorful!
Kilts and fascinators welcomed.
Have fun with it.

Below is an *aspirational* mood board.


We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with the most special people in our lives. This is the best gift you can give us. For friends and family that have asked for a registry, we've created an online fund for our honeymoon and adventures beyond. We're just getting settled in a new home after fitting everything in a car for 6 months so we look forward to outfitting our home with special items that will make us think of all of you, when the time comes.


What if I can't remember if I RSVP'd?
No worries! To be safe, do it again (don’t forget food restrictions).

How do I get to the events?
All events are within an 8-minute walk (0.5 miles) from Harbor View Inn. No group transportation has been organized. Please Uber or Lyft if you are unable to walk, parking around the event spaces is limited.

What shoes should I wear?
The ceremony will be at a garden with gravel, so please wear shoes accordingly

What time does the ceremony start?
The ceremony begins promptly at 4:30. The garden will be open for happy hour and light bites starting at 3:30 pm. Please do not arrive before then.

Why didn’t I pick a food item?
All food will be served buffet style.

What is the hotel situation?
We have a discount code for wedding guests at The Harbor View Inn. Please book ASAP, as we are not guaranteed rooms.
In the case that the hotel is no longer available either call the hotel to confirm or find another one, preferably in “The Funk Zone” so you can also walk to all events.

What if I have a food allergy?
Please add food allergies and restrictions in your RSVP. We will have dairy-free, vegetarian, gluten-free, and nut-free options.

Can I bring my kids?
Sorry, no children.

What is a kilt and where can I find one?
A kilt is a knee-length skirt-like garment worn as the traditional national garb of Scotland. You can rent kilts online, but it might be cheaper to buy a casual one online. We recommend a * LIGHTWEIGHT * and * CASUAL * version, the traditional wool options are very warm and expensive.